Khoom plig tshoob rau koj tus fiance yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm koj hnub tshwj xeeb. Muaj ntau yam khoom xaiv los ntawm thiab nws tuaj yeem xav tias nyuaj rau xaiv qhov khoom plig zoo tshaj. Koj tuaj yeem xaiv qhov khoom plig uas zoo siab, xws li duab zoo nkauj lossis ntawv sau cia. Koj tseem tuaj yeem xaiv rau qee yam hnav, xws li cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub lossis saib. Raws li koj yuav xaus nrog ntau yam khoom siv ntxiv thiab pob txha-pob los ntawm lwm tus qhua, qee yam kev siv tau tuaj yeem ua haujlwm ib yam nkaus, zoo li cov cuab yeej lossis cov khoom mus ncig rau koj qhov kev yos hav zoov.
Cov kauj ruam
Txoj Kev 1 ntawm 3: Xaiv Qhov Khoom Plig Zoo
Kauj Ruam 1. Ua khoom plig siv duab
Cov duab los ntawm lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb thaum koj kev sib raug zoo tuaj yeem siv los ua khoom plig tshoob zoo nkauj. Yog tias koj xav muab koj tus fiance rau qee yam ntawm phau ntawv qhia kev xav ntau, sim ua qee yam nrog duab.
- Nres los ntawm lub khw luam ntawv hauv ib cheeb tsam lossis nrhiav ib qho hauv online. Saib seb koj puas tuaj yeem ua qee yam xws li daim ntawv qhia hnub lossis phab ntsa dai nrog cov duab tshwj xeeb ntawm koj ob leeg.
- Nqis peev hauv daim duab zoo nkauj los thav duab koj nyiam ntawm koj thiab koj tus fiance.
Kauj Ruam 2. Tau ib yam dab tsi kos
Ib yam khoom twg yuav hnov zoo siab nrog kev kos duab. Yog tias koj xav tau koj tus fiance ib yam li ib yam ntawm cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub lossis cov cuab yeej, muab nws kos. Qhov no yuav ntxiv kev xav rau ib yam khoom uas tej zaum yuav zoo li qub.
- Piv txwv li, yog tias koj tab tom tau txais koj tus fiance ib lub nplhaib, muaj qee yam kos rau ntawm lub nplhaib.
- Koj tuaj yeem sau koj lub npe rau hauv ib yam khoom. Koj tseem tuaj yeem sim hnub tshwj xeeb, zoo li hnub koj tau ntsib, lossis cov lus los ntawm paj huam lossis nkauj uas nco koj txog koj kev sib raug zoo.
- Ntau lub vev xaib muag cov khoom uas koj tuaj yeem them tau los kos. Tsuas yog xyuas kom koj tso koj daim ntawv xaj ua ntej koj hnub ua tshoob yog li nws tau npaj sijhawm.
Kauj Ruam 3. Qhia ib tsab ntawv sau los ntawm tes
Koj tsis tas yuav siv nyiaj ntau rau khoom plig tshoob. Ib yam dab tsi yooj yim raws li cov ntawv sau tau sau rau ntawm cov ntawv sau zoo tuaj yeem yog qhov khoom qab zib, txaus siab rau koj tus khub yuav hlub rau ntau xyoo tom ntej.
- Sim kov nrog koj txoj kev xav thaum sau tsab ntawv. Txo koj cov kev txwv thiab sau txog vim li cas koj thiaj tos ntsoov rau koj lub neej ua ke thiab txhua yam koj nyiam txog koj tus fiance.
- Yog tias koj tsis muaj kev sau ntawv zoo tshaj, tsis txhob txhawj. Lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev ceeb toom yog qhia koj tus kheej thiab koj txoj kev xav. Txawm hais tias koj cov ntawv sau tau sau me ntsis, koj tus fiance yuav txaus siab rau qhov kev xav.
Kauj Ruam 4. Ua ib phau ntawv me me
Yog tias koj yog hom neeg vwm, sim ua ib phau ntawv me me. Ib phau ntawv me me uas piav qhia cov ntsiab lus siab ntawm koj txoj kev sib raug zoo tuaj yeem yog qhov khoom plig zoo, txaus siab rau koj tus fiance yuav khaws cia.
- Ntxiv tej yam xws li daim pib dav hlau, daim npav tshaj tawm, cov ntawv qhia zaub mov, thiab lwm yam khoom uas ua rau koj nco txog lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb thiab chaw.
- Muaj cov duab luam tawm ntawm lub khw luam ntawv hauv ib cheeb tsam. Luam tawm qee cov duab koj nyiam ntawm koj ob leeg.
- Koj tuaj yeem nres ntawm lub khw khoom siv tes ua hauv zos kom tau txais cov khoom siv rau phau ntawv seem. Saib cov khoom zoo li ntawv nplaum thiab ntawv zoo nkauj tuaj yeem pab muab kev tshoov siab rau koj qhov khoom plig.
Txoj Kev 2 ntawm 3: Xaiv Ib Yam Hnav
Kauj Ruam 1. Tham nrog koj tus fiance cov phooj ywg kom tau tswv yim
Yog tias koj xav xaiv qee yam uas koj tus khub tuaj yeem hnav, koj yuav xav tham nrog lawv cov phooj ywg. Ntau zaus, cov phooj ywg paub ntau txog ib leeg qhov kev nyiam thiab qhov ntau thiab tsawg. Yog tias koj tsis paub yuav pib qhov twg, caw qee tus phooj ywg koj tus phooj ywg tawm mus noj su lossis kas fes thiab saib seb lawv puas muaj tswv yim.
Xyuas kom koj cov phooj ywg paub qhov khoom plig yuav tsum yog qhov xav tsis thoob. Koj tsis xav tshuab lub surprise ua ntej muab rau koj tus fiance lawv khoom plig
Kauj Ruam 2. Saib rau hauv cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub
Cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub feem ntau tuaj yeem yog khoom qab zib, nyiam ua khoom plig rau kab tshoob. Ib txoj saw caj dab, hlua tes, qhwv ntsej, lossis lwm yam khoom ntawm cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub tuaj yeem ua tsaug yog tias koj tus fiance ib txwm hnav ntau cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub.
- Xyuas kom koj paub tias hom hlau twg koj tus fiance nyiam. Qee tus neeg muaj kev ncaj ncees tawm tsam rau qee hom hlau, zoo li pob zeb diamond, lossis yooj yim tsis nyiam xim lossis duab ntawm qee cov hlau.
- Ua tib zoo saib cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub uas koj tus fiance niaj hnub hnav. Saib yog tias lawv tau kos rau ib qho tshwj xeeb lossis xim.
Kauj Ruam 3. nqis peev hauv kev saib xyuas zoo
Lub moos tuaj yeem yog qhov khoom plig tshoob zoo tshaj plaws. Txuag qee qhov nyiaj thiab pov rau ntawm qhov zoo nkauj saib koj tus fiance yuav khaws cia rau xyoo tom ntej.
- Mus rau lub moos uas nyob hauv cov style uas koj tus khub nyiam. Ua tib zoo saib xyuas lawv cov khoom siv tas li thiab sim nrhiav lub moos uas phim.
- Koj tuaj yeem muaj lub moos koom nrog koj hnub ua tshoob lossis npe ua kom nws tshwj xeeb ntxiv.
TSWV YIM TSHUAJ
"Lub moos lossis ib khub tshwj xeeb ntawm cufflinks tuaj yeem yog khoom plig zoo nkauj rau tus nraug vauv."
Hope Mirlis
Wedding Officiant & Marriage Counselor Hope Mirlis is a registered Wedding Officiant, an Ordained Non-Denominational Minister, and a Certified Yoga Instructor specializing in pre-wedding mental health. She is the Founder of A More Perfect Union, a premarital counseling business. She has worked as a counselor and officiant for over eight years and has helped hundreds of couples strengthen their relationships. She has a MFA in Dramatic Arts from the University of California, Davis.
Hope Mirlis
Wedding Officiant & Marriage Counselor
Kauj Ruam 4. Sim ua ob khub zoo nkauj ntawm lub cufflinks
Yog tias koj tab tom pauv khoom plig ua ntej tshoob, sim ua qhov zoo nkauj ntawm cufflinks. Koj tus fiance tuaj yeem hnav cov no rau koj hnub loj. Koj tseem tuaj yeem tau txais cufflinks tus kheej ntawm kev kos duab.
Txoj kev 3 ntawm 3: Xaiv rau qee yam muaj txiaj ntsig
Kauj Ruam 1. Yuav cov cuab yeej zoo nkauj
Puas yog koj tus fiance puas nyob ze lub tsev? Lawv puas muaj kev nyiam ua uas xav tau cov cuab yeej tshwj xeeb? Lawv puas nyiam cawv? Sim nrhiav cov cuab yeej uas haum koj tus fiance txoj kev ua neej. Siv me ntsis ntxiv tshaj qhov koj ib txwm xav tau ntawm cov cuab yeej zoo nkauj.
- Yog tias koj tus fiance nyiam tsim khoom, tau txais lawv cov cuab yeej kim nrog cov khoom xws li hammers thiab wrenches.
- Rau tus nyiam cawv, sim qhib lub raj mis zoo nkauj lossis qhib cawv tsis siv neeg.
Kauj Ruam 2. Sau cov khoom tu tus kheej
Nws yuav zoo li me ntsis npub, tab sis yog tias koj tus fiance nyiam ua tus yam ntxwv koj tuaj yeem sim teeb tsa cov khoom siv tu tus kheej. Nqis peev hauv pob khoom plig zoo thiab sau nws nrog cov khoom rau kev saib xyuas tus kheej.
Sim tau txais cov khoom tu tus kheej zoo nkauj. Nqis peev hauv qee yam xws li tsuaj zawv plaub hau kim lossis rab chais kim
Kauj Ruam 3. Yuav qee yam khoom mus ncig rau koj qhov honeymoon
Yog tias koj tab tom npaj ua honeymoon sai tom qab koj ua tshoob, yuav khoom plig rau qhov ntawd. Sim yuav khaub ncaws tshwj xeeb rau kev mus, zoo li lub cev ua luam dej zoo yog tias koj yuav mus qhov twg zoo li Hawaii. Koj tseem tuaj yeem sim yuav lub koob yees duab zoo nkauj kom thaij duab ntau thaum koj so.
Kauj Ruam 4. Muab koj tus fiance zaub mov
Cov zaub mov zoo nkauj kuj tuaj yeem yog khoom plig zoo. Yog tias koj tus fiance, hais, hlub salsa, yuav qee cov salsa kim los ntawm khw muag khoom noj qab haus huv. Khoom noj tuaj yeem yog khoom plig zoo vim tias nws yuav tsis ploj mus.
Yog tias koj nyiam ua noj, koj tuaj yeem sim ua qee yam rau koj tus fiance. Piv txwv li, koj tuaj yeem ua rau koj tus fiance noj tshais tshwj xeeb hnub ua ntej ua tshoob
Lub tswv yim
- Thaum xaiv ib yam dab tsi los hnav, xws li cov hniav nyiaj hniav kub, xyuas kom koj paub koj tus fiance loj npaum li cas.
- Xaiv lub sijhawm los muab khoom plig qhov twg yog yam uas nyob ntsiag to. Cov kab tshoob kev kos tuaj yeem npau taws, yog li xaiv lub sijhawm tshwj xeeb nrog koj thiab koj tus fiance uas koj tuaj yeem saib xyuas lawv tiag tiag rau qhov khoom plig.
