Ib tus menyuam ua yeeb yam, muaj kev npau taws lossis ua rau tsis tuaj yeem tswj tau tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab thiab txaus ntshai. Lub hom phiaj qhov kawg yog los daws qhov xwm txheej zoo li no uas tus menyuam ntseeg koj ntau dua tom qab kev sib cuam tshuam thiab tus cwj pwm poob qis zuj zus.
Cov kauj ruam
Kauj Ruam 1. Txheeb xyuas txhua yam kev pheej hmoo nyab xeeb. Thov siv sijhawm me ntsis los saib ib puag ncig thiab txheeb xyuas seb puas muaj cov khoom phom sij lossis phom sij txaus ntshai
Qee qhov piv txwv ntawm kev pheej hmoo nyab xeeb yog:
- Cov khoom ntse
- Cov hlua uas tuaj yeem ua rau cov menyuam nyob ib puag ncig
- Ib txheej ntaiv uas tuaj yeem poob qis
- Qhov cub kub los yog qhov cub
Kauj Ruam 2. Hloov kho tus menyuam ib puag ncig kom ntseeg tau tias lawv muaj kev nyab xeeb
Yog koj txheeb xyuas kev txhawj xeeb txog kev nyab xeeb ua dab tsi koj tuaj yeem tshem lawv tawm ntawm tus menyuam qhov teeb meem. Qee yam uas koj tuaj yeem ua kom ntseeg tau kev nyab xeeb yog:
- Tsiv cov khoom txaus ntshai mus rau lub txee siab lossis txee ruaj ntseg
- Sawv pem lub taub hau ntse
- Lub cev txav mus rau lwm chav - tus menyuam yuav ua raws koj kom ua tib zoo mloog
Kauj Ruam 3. Ua rau koj tus kheej xis nyob
Cov kauj ruam no yooj yim hla, tab sis nws tseem ceeb heev rau kev ua tiav.
- Ua pa tob
- Nco koj tus kheej tias koj tuaj yeem daws qhov kev nyab xeeb no thiab muaj txiaj ntsig
- Hnov qhov sib txawv ntawm koj tus cwj pwm nyob ntsiag to thiab tus menyuam tsis muaj kev tswj hwm
- Cia mus ntawm kev npaj yuav ua li cas koj yuav daws qhov no
- Tso kev xav txog kev qhuab qhia lossis kev rau txim
- Tso kev txhawj xeeb txog lub sijhawm nws yuav siv sijhawm lossis yuav siv sijhawm ntau npaum li cas
Kauj Ruam 4. Ua tus me nyuam xis nyob
Txhua qhov xwm txheej thiab txhua tus menyuam sib txawv yog li koj yuav tsum xav txog koj txhais taw thiab muaj tswv yim. Lawv qhov kev coj ua nce zuj zus tuaj yeem tau txais kev saib xyuas lossis siv tswv yim, tab sis tus menyuam uas dhau los ntawm kev tswj hwm tsis ua nws ua phem lossis ua teeb meem ntawm lub hom phiaj. Lawv ua yeeb yam vim tias lawv tsis nkag siab thiab lawv npau taws. Qee yam uas koj tuaj yeem sim yog:
- Zaum ze lawv thiab hais lus mos lus txhawb siab.
- Cia lawv rhuav tshem qee yam uas koj tsis ua nrog (piv txwv li: tawg tag nrho lawv cov Legos sib nrug, tshem tag nrho cov ntawv tawm ntawm lawv lub txaj, tsoo txiv hmab txiv ntoo ntawm txoj kev taug kev, thiab lwm yam)
- Qhia lawv tias koj xav pab lawv tab sis tsis tuaj yeem ua li ntawd kom txog thaum lawv nqig.
Kauj Ruam 5. Muab sijhawm rau lawv thiab nyob ntsiag to
Ib tus menyuam uas tau ua rau lawv lub cev nyob twj ywm tseem xav tau kom lawv lub siab nqig. Lawv yuav txaj muag ua rau qhov xwm txheej no thiab yuav chim siab lossis txaj muag txog qee qhov kev puas tsuaj uas lawv tau ua. Tsis txhob mus yws rau lawv lossis tham txog qhov yuav tshwm sim kom txog thaum lawv muaj sijhawm so thiab rov qab los rau lub siab ruaj khov dua. Nco ntsoov qhia rau lawv tias koj txaus siab rau lawv rau qhov ua rau lawv nyob ntsiag to, tias koj tsis chim, thiab txhua yam zoo. Qhov no yuav xav tias tsis txaus ntseeg, tab sis qhia tus menyuam tias lawv ua yeeb yam tsis tau ua rau koj thiab tias koj muaj zog thiab muaj peev xwm los daws cov teeb meem nyuaj siab.
Kauj Ruam 6. Sib tham seb yuav kho li cas
- Nug tus menyuam seb lawv yuav tsum ua dab tsi thiaj li raug.
- Xyuas kom lawv ntxuav txhua yam uas lawv puas lossis puas.
- Kom lawv thov txim rau txhua tus neeg uas yuav raug mob lossis ntshai los ntawm lawv cov kev ua.
Kauj Ruam 7. Tham txog yam lawv yuav ua tom ntej
- Kom tus menyuam xav txog yam uas yuav ua haujlwm zoo dua kom tau txais yam lawv xav tau.
- Tuaj nrog ntau txoj hauv kev los qhia lawv qhov kev npau taws uas nyab xeeb thiab tsim nyog.
Kauj Ruam 8. Qhia lawv seb koj xav li cas
Nco ntsoov koj qhia tus menyuam tias lawv cov lus thiab kev coj ua cuam tshuam rau koj li cas. Yog tias qee qhov chaw, tus neeg, lub sijhawm ntawm ib hnub, yam haujlwm lossis lub luag haujlwm tau ua lub luag haujlwm hauv lawv tus cwj pwm uas tswj tsis tau kom ntseeg tau tias koj tham txog nws. Lawv puas tau xiam qee qhov koj ntseeg? Puas yog koj yuav tsum tsis coj lawv mus rau tom khw vim lawv ua tsis raug? Koj puas yuav tsum tau tuaj nyob rau lwm lub sijhawm uas tus phooj ywg tshwj xeeb tuaj ntsib? Puas yog lawv ntaus pob ntaus pob tsis yog khoom ua si nyab xeeb lawm? Thaum kawg, qhia lawv tias koj mob siab rau lawv thiab yuav nyob ntawd rau lawv txawm tias muaj dab tsi tshwm sim.
Lub tswv yim
- Xyuas kom cov menyuam yaus uas nquag ua lub cev tawm muaj lwm qhov kev tawm dag zog lub cev thiab nthuav tawm.
- Sau npe rov qab lossis lwm tus neeg laus los pab. Txhua leej txhua tus muaj txoj hauv kev sib txawv thiab tuaj yeem qhia koj qee yam tshiab txog kev daws teeb meem.
- Koj puas zoo tshaj los txheeb xyuas cov lus ceeb toom ntawm kev npau taws tuaj. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau cov kauj ruam los tiv thaiv kev kub ntxhov los ntawm qhov tshwm sim.
- Yog tias ua tau nug lwm tus menyuam lossis saib-hauv kom tawm ntawm thaj chaw lossis kom tus menyuam txav mus rau qhov chaw uas lawv yuav tsis muaj cov neeg tuaj saib coob npaum li cas rau lawv tus cwj pwm.
Lus ceeb toom
- Qhuav, hem, lossis thuam lawv thaum muaj kev npau taws tshwm sim tsuas yog ua rau muaj xwm txheej ntxiv mus xwb.
- Tsis txhob sim cuab lossis ua phem rau tus menyuam thaum muaj teebmeem. Yog tias lawv txaus ntshai rau lawv tus kheej lossis lwm tus koj yuav xav tau qhwv koj txhais caj npab ib puag ncig kom lawv nyab xeeb.
